Over the next 5 weeks we’re sharing simple ways to boost wellbeing in children. We hope parents, grandparents, carers, teachers – and anyone else who cares for children and young people – will find them useful.
Week 1 – Be Yourself
The theme of this year’s mental health week was about celebrating our children’s unique strengths (#beingourselves). Helping children to recognise their character strengths is a great way to build their confidence and appreciate the uniqueness they bring to the world.
By shifting the focus from the things they can’t do to what they can, you emphasise the positive aspects of their character. Character strengths aren’t dependant on an outcome, a grade or a particular achievement; they’re the core virtues that make us who we are.
There are many ways you can encourage children to notice and appreciate their own strengths, and those of others too. Here are just three:
1. Spot strengths
If you’re one of the people spending time wth a child (a parent, friend, teacher, or example), start noticing and naming the strengths you see them display. So, say things like: “You really showed your strength of patience today while we waited at the supermarket” and “I noticed how you were working together in your football practice today; great teamwork!”
2. Take the VIA strengths survey
You may want to support children over 10 by getting them to take the Youth VIA strengths online survey (which is free). By answering a series of questions, the child discovers their strongest character strengths. To emphasise their top 5 strengths, write them down and make sure your child can see them every day.
3. Find a character role model
There are so many fantastic stories and films depicting character strengths. Talk with your child about the strengths on display and see if they want to try emulating the role model in real life. If they do, use the “spot strengths” technique to praise them for working hard on the trait.
I hope you have fun celebrating your child’s uniqueness. Next week, you’ll find even more ways to help your child build their wellbeing.